Victoria Kirby - Online

Therapist Directory Listing Category: Online Therapy

About the Therapist

About the therapist:

I am an accredited psychotherapist working with couples and individuals. I specialise in sex and relationships therapy and have an advanced accreditation as a Sex, Relationship and Gender Diversities therapist.

I love working with queer, kinky, non-monogamous and neurodiverse clients, and together exploring experiences and concerns in relation to sex and relationships and gender and sexual identity.

I have worked in the field of sex and relationships for over 15 years, in service delivery and management roles, in the voluntary and private sectors and in the NHS. I design resources and deliver training using the Internal Family Systems framework to work with issues around sex and sexuality.

Sexual identity:

Other

Gender identity: Female

Gender history: As assigned at birth

Non-monogamy: No

Intersex: No

Neurodivergent: Unsure

Personal pronouns: she/they

Accredited GSRD Therapist: Advanced

Qualifications - Links to websites:

Accredited by the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP):

Advanced Accredited Gender, Sexual and Relationship Diversities (GSRD) therapist with Pink Therapy

IFS & IFIO - IFS level 1 & 2, individuals and couples: IFS institute

EMDR accredited training: EMDR association

Gottman Institute Couples training level 1 & 2: Gottman Institute

Qualifications - Additional:

Award	Awarding body	Year of award
MSc Therapeutic Counselling	Greenwich University
MSc Public Health & Health Promotion	Leeds Metropolitan University
BA (honours) British Psychological Society Approved degree	University of Newcastle

Experience and approach:

I integrate psychodynamic, person-centred therapy and relational therapy with Internal Family systems.I will meet you with respect and will provide a space in which you can feel seen, heard and validated.When exploring challenges around sex and relationships, I will help you to understand the impact of early relationships, attachment, and other trauma. I will support you in gently unpacking complex relationship dynamics and lovingly meeting the parts of you that feel hurt or ashamed.

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