Cara Lester
About the Therapist
Hi, I'm Cara Lester.
I offer a non-judgemental, reflective space where therapy is guided by your pace, priorities, and lived experience. My approach is long-term work and non-pathologising, helping you navigate patterns, life transitions, and the challenges of identity, connection, and relationships with clarity and care.
Drawing on my Master’s-level training in existential therapy, specialist work with polyamory, and lived experience as a bisexual person, I bring both professional expertise and personal insight. Therapy can involve everyday challenges like anxiety, low self-esteem, or relationship dynamics, as well as the bigger questions: What gives life meaning? What makes it worth living? These bold, sometimes daunting questions can feel scary alone, but together we explore them in ways that bring insight and fulfilment.
For those exploring non-traditional or polyamorous relationships, I focus on the relationships themselves as the unit of attention, exploring how individual, social and cultural histories, identities, and experiences shape connections. Sessions provide space for reflection, curiosity, and dialogue, helping all involved engage more consciously and compassionately.
I am LGBTQ+ affirmative and actively challenge prejudice and discrimination, creating a safe, inclusive space for clients to explore identity, desires, and choices. I work with LGBTQ+, trans, and non-binary clients, as well as those navigating polyamory, open relationships, or other non-traditional relational structures.
Ultimately, therapy is about helping you live authentically and intentionally, making sense of patterns, strengthening relationships, navigating life transitions, and exploring the existential questions that matter most. I am a BACP-registered psychotherapist and counsellor, based in Fitzrovia and London Bridge, combining specialist relational training, lived experience, and professional expertise to offer an affirming, thoughtful, and inclusive space.
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Queer
Certificate in Psychotherapy and Counselling - Regents University, London 2022
PGDip In Psychotherapy and Counselling - Regents University, London 2025
MA in Psychotherapy and Counselling (Existential Pathway) - Regents University, London
Registered Member of British Association of Counselling and Therapy (BACP)
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I bring an existential and phenomenological approach (considering your lived experience, societal, cultural, and relational contexts) to explore themes of identity, gender, sexuality, relationships, polyamory, life transitions, anxiety, low self-esteem, and the bigger existential questions of meaning, purpose, and authenticity.
My clinical experience includes working with:
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Navigating diverse relationship structures, including open and polyamorous relationships and polycules
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Identity, coming out, and bisexual visibility
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LGBTQ+ specific issues, minority stress, and internalised prejudice
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Life transitions and existential uncertainty
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Anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and relational patterns
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Shame, particularly internalised or culturally imposed shame
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Communication, boundaries, and conflict in relationships of all forms
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Exploring connection, intimacy, and relational fulfilment
- Body diversity and embodiment, including body image, self-acceptance, and navigating social pressures
- Existential
- Integrative
- Relational
- Ace | Asexual
- BDSM | Kink
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Consensual non-monogamy
- Lesbian
- Non-binary | Genderqueer
- Queer
- Questioning
- Trans
- One to one
- Two people
- Three or more people
- No adaptation
- Adults
- Online
- In Person
My fees begin at £90 a session for one-to-one therapy, and £140 for couples (with an appropriate charge for additional partners).
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