I am Hilary, a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist based in Hayle, Cornwall.  I am a registered member of the College of Sexual and Relationship Therapists (COSRT) with experience in working with individuals, couples and polyamory. Also a psychologist with 20+ years’ experience in mental health.  My continued attention to building nurturing and authentic relationships helps the therapeutic process feel calm and relaxed.  My approach encourages openness, with permission sought to explore the most intimate areas of sexuality. I work in ways to accept and celebrate all that makes us most unique and inherently human.

I am a sex-positive psychotherapist with a focus on complex trauma stemming from sexual violence. I work with individuals, couples, and people in open or polyamorous relationships. No matter your identity, we can explore any challenges impacting your sex life, including issues like relationship breakdowns, loss of desire, painful intercourse, erectile dysfunction, or questions around sexual identity.   My approach to therapy is rooted in collaboration. I create a safe space where we can explore, deconstruct, rebuild, and craft a life that reflects your true self. Reach out for help today.

MENTAL HEALTH   |   RELATIONSHIPS   |   SEX THERAPY Qualified therapist providing expert support for individuals, couples & partners facing intimacy & relationship challenges. Sessions in Cheshire (CW9) or online, with evening slots. Book a free 30-minute consultation today. Life can be messy, complicated, and overwhelming. Whether you’re struggling with relationships, facing a personal crisis, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, counselling offers a safe space to explore, understand, and heal. I work with individuals, couples, and multi-partnered relationships across a range of issues, including: Desire discrepancy & low desire: Navigating mismatched sexual needs or changes in intimacy.

*Evening Availability* Hi! I’m Jem (they/them), I’m a COSRT registered sex and relationship therapist. I’m non-binary, queer, non-monogamous and kinky – I specialise in supporting individuals and couples who share these identities and want affirmative and attuned care. I work in a person-centred and integrative way drawing on many different theories as well as my own life-experiences to help people navigate their way through this baffling and beautiful reality we find ourselves in.

After attaining my degree in Psychology, I trained to diploma level as an Integrative Therapeutic Counsellor. Since beginning practice in 2014, I’ve accumulated thousands of hours of experience delivering therapy sessions. Working both short term and long term with individuals, supporting them in finding ways to change their lives for the better.

I am a qualified Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist registered with both COSRT and the BACP.  Alongside my private practice, I work as a Psychosexual Therapist at Leicester Sexual Health Services with the Midlands Partnership NHS Trust. I am also an internal assessor for CICS (Contemporary Institute of Clinical Sexology). Previously I have worked in mental health psychiatric units, forensic units and dementia mental health care. I was also a sessional lecturer of forensic psychology HE level.

I work gently and compassionately with individuals, couples and polycules on all aspects of sex. I welcome all kinds of people to my therapy practice and much of my work is with experiences of marginalisation and life outside the mainstream. Together we will create a space in which talking about sex is comfortable and you feel safe enough to explore whatever you need to bring to our sessions.

I have extensive experience as a psychosexologist, with certification as a counselling psychologist in the UK, multiple publications as a scientific researcher, and a current PhD candidate in Clinical Psychology. My area of focus centers primarily on supporting individuals dealing with non-monogamy (both consensual and infidelity), as well as those experiencing desire discrepancy in couples, sexual fantasies, fetishes, sexual trauma and compulsive sexual behavior. My goal is to help individuals achieve a more satisfying and fulfilling sexual life. My counselling insight draws from profound scientific knowledge in the field of psychosexuality – my scientific research on monogamy and non-monogamy is

Your queer sex therapist. I specialise in psychosexual and relationship issues becuase I think we all deserve to have fulfilling, meaningful lives. When we as individuals learn to pursue healthy, joyful, sexual and romantic relationships, we learn to pursue fulfilment and pleasure. It makes our lives a little better. We also make the lives of the people around us a bit better too. As a queer and non-monogamous therapist, I have a particular interest in helping folks from GSRD communities find their joy.