Ian Newman
Therapist Directory Listing Category: Psychotherapists and Counsellors
About the Therapist
About the therapist:
I understand that the therapeutic relationship is the heart of change, and I am committed to making that connection accessible whether we meet in my consulting room or via a screen.
* In-Person: We share a physical space, allowing for a traditional therapeutic environment where we can use the room and creative experiments to explore your feelings. I work from my private practice in Kings Hill, Kent and also at the Gestalt Centre in London.
* Online: I have extensive experience translating the counselling experience to online work. Many clients find that working from the comfort of their own home allows them to open up in different and profound ways.
Regardless of the format, my goal is to offer you a non-judgmental, affirmative space where you can bring your whole self—fears, joys, and complexities included.
Sexual identity:
- Gay
Gender identity: Male
Gender history: As assigned at birth
Non-monogamy: Yes
Intersex: No
Neurodivergent: No
Personal pronouns: he/him/they
Qualifications - Links to websites:
Post Graduate Diploma (with merit) Gestalt Therapy Theory StudiesAdvanced Diploma in Professional Development in Gestalt Therapy Theory StudiesCertificate in Humanistic Counselling SkillsBACP Registered Member 373735Ian Newman - therapist in west-malling-me19 | BACP
Qualifications - Additional:
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Experience and approach:
My approach is grounded in Gestalt Therapy, which is fundamentally about awareness. Rather than getting lost in the past or worrying about the future, we focus on the "here and now"—what you are thinking, feeling, and sensing in the present moment. By becoming fully aware of how you relate to yourself and the world around you, you gain the freedom to make new, healthier choices.
Over my 10 years of practice, specifically supporting LGBTQ+ individuals, I have found that true healing requires a flexible toolkit. Therefore, I weave in elements from three other powerful approaches:
* Mindfulness: This supports our Gestalt work by helping you slow down and tune into your body. It provides a grounding anchor, reducing anxiety and helping you observe your thoughts without getting swept away by them.
* Compassion-Focused Therapy (CFT): Many of us, particularly in the LGBTQ+ community, struggle with an inner critic or deep-seated shame. CFT helps us retrain our brains to respond to suffering with kindness rather than judgment, building a sense of safety and self-soothing.
* Internal Family Systems (IFS): You might feel like "part of you" wants one thing, while another part wants something else. I use IFS to help you understand these different internal "parts"—protective or vulnerable—allowing you to integrate them so you feel more whole and less conflicted.
Approaches:
- Compassion-focused therapy
- Gestalt
- Humanistic
- Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS)
Marginalised groups:
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Consensual non-monogamy
- Gay
- Non-binary | Genderqueer
- Queer
- Questioning
- Trans
Relationship styles:
- One to one
Access:
- No adaptation
Age ranges:
- Adults
Online status:
- Online
- In Person
Initial Consultations are offered for free if in Kent or online. £20 for a consultation in London. Session fee is £60 per session. A discounted fee is offered to students and those on a low income and can be discussed as part of the consultation.
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