Louise Futcher - Counselling and Psychotherapy
About the Therapist
I'm Lou, a 50 year old queer counsellor who grew up working class in the suburban countryside, navigating my identity under Section 28 and the Thatcher years. I always knew I was queer (bisexual) and came out in my mid teens. I came to this work in my late 30s after a high-pressure career in a corporate environment which ended in burnout and enduring stress, and after training at Goldsmiths began my own practice in 2014 working with LGBTQ+ folk. Please visit my website for more information and context. My Therapy is queer-affirmative, body neutral/positive, sex positive, adaptable and consent-based, respectful of non-mainstream practices and beliefs, critical of oppressive systems, feminist (which includes being aware of how patriarchy impacts men, especially queer men), anti-fascist and anti-racist, neurodivergent inclusive, and trans inclusive.
- Queer
I studied for my Counselling Diploma at Goldsmiths, where two of the three main lecturers were queer, and which was a very progressive and openminded environment and training. Before that I got my Counselling Certificate from London Metropolitan University which offered a Transcultural approach, and where two of the three lecturers were Black women.
Accredited Registrant of the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society. Member no NCS18-06202.Diploma in Counselling (Psychodynamic) Goldsmiths. Awarded 2013.
Certificate in Counselling (Transcultural) London Met. Awarded 2010.
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Therapy with me isn’t just about reflecting - it’s active, engaging and sometimes challenging.
You’ll explore your strengths - and your bullshit. You’ll have conversations that might make you uncomfortable. Sometimes, with your agreement, I’ll suggest something to do between sessions - reading, writing, or trying something new.
We’ll look at your daily life:
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Your routines, patterns and habits - what you do too much or too little of?
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What’s bringing you joy?
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What’s draining you?
We can explore:
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Politics, relationships, family, sex and sexuality
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Substance and porn use
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Work, creativity, pleasure and play
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Your relationship with your body
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How childhood, teenage years and early sexual experiences shaped you
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Perfectionism, control, status and comparison
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Success - what does it mean to you?
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Fantasies, desires and what’s missing from your life.
This is a whole lot more than just processing trauma. It’s an exploration of what makes you you.
- Attachment theory (Psychodynamic)
- Feminist therapy
- GSRD therapy
- Integrative
- Neurodivergent
- Psychodynamic
- Ace | Asexual
- BDSM | Kink
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Consensual non-monogamy
- Cross-dresser
- Intersex
- Lesbian
- Neurodivergent
- Non-binary | Genderqueer
- Queer
- Questioning
- Survivors of attempted conversion therapy
- Trans
- One to one
- No adaptation
- Adults
- Seniors (60+)
- Young adults (16-24)
- Online
- In Person
My fees start at £90 per session and are determined by whether sessions are online or in-person, daytime or evening, and financial circumstances.
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