Sarah Portwine
About the Therapist
In a culture that promotes heteronormative, cisgender and monogamous ways of being I passionately believe in supporting and empowering gender, sexuality and relationship diverse people. I became a therapist after experiencing the therapy process for myself. My perspective on therapy is based on personal experience as well as my training. I'm not a 'blank screen' therapist, I bring who I am to sessions including the occasional swear. I describe myself as down-to-earth, respectful, non-judgmental, authentic and compassionate.Â
Choosing to engage in therapy can be a daunting prospect, my aim is to help you feel at ease by using a non-judgmental and empathetic approach in a safe and confidential space
My qualifications and training are predominantly in person-centred psychotherapy and I have additional training in several therapy modalities including GSRD therapy, humanistic and mindfulness approaches, and CBT. I describe myself as an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist, adapting my approach based on the needs of the client. I do not believe in a 'one size fits all' approach to therapy. I have worked with a diverse range of clients and recognise the needs of each client are unique. I am BDSM and Kink knowledgeable, working with awareness of the dynamics of diverse relationships. I am wholeheartedly committed to supporting the LGBTQIA+ community and empowering GSRD clients to be their authentic selves through non-judgmental, affirming and client-led therapy.Â
I am passionate about my work and volunteering within the community. I am currently Chairperson of Isle of Wight Pride, where I work with an incredibly dedicated team to create safe spaces for LGBTQIA+ people on the island and champion the rights of all in the queer community.
Research tells us that one of the most important aspects of therapy, leading to successful client outcomes, is the therapeutic relationship. It is so important to find the right therapist for you, someone you feel you can connect with in the therapy process. That is why I offer a free initial phone or online consultation so you have the opportunity to chat with me and see if we might be a good fit. The therapeutic relationship can help you to explore your thoughts and feelings and develop new perspectives and insights. As a result, the relationship with yourself and others can become more authentic and enjoyable. Developing understanding and acceptance can lead to healing and recovery from emotional distress and experiences that have impacted your life.Â
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Kink - BDSM
- Other
- Queer
Qualifications and Training
- BA (Hons) in Person-Centred Counselling and Psychotherapy - Middlesex University (BACP Accredited Degree)
- Diploma of Higher Education (Open) including - Understanding Counselling and Psychotherapy: exploring fear and sadness, Death and Dying, Challenging Ideas in Mental Health, Investigating Psychology and Science of the Mind - Open University
- Bereavement Support Certificate - Cruse Bereavement Care
- Certified Cyber Therapist - Online Therapy InstituteÂ
Pink Therapy Training - Continuing Professional Development Courses
- Bisexuality in GSRD Therapy
- Coming Out
- Dimensions of Sexuality
- Faith, Religion and Spirituality
- Gender Identities
- Defining GSRD Therapy
- Intimate Partner Violence & Minority Stress
- Parenting Outside Heteronormativity
- Shame & Internalised Oppression
- Substance Use & Misuse
- Understanding Kink/BDSM
- Intersectionality
Additional Continuing Professional Development Courses
- Understanding Trauma
- Keeping Children Safe Online
- Working Together to Safeguard ChildrenÂ
- Existential Contributions to Counselling and Psychotherapy
I am a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy - https://www.bacp.co.uk/therapists/389831/sarah-portwine/bembridge-po35
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Clients contact me for help with all sorts of issues. Life can sometimes feel overwhelming and we don't know where to start to help ourselves feel better. I help clients make sense of what they are experiencing and we work together to find ways for them to feel happier in themselves, improve their mental health, heal and recover from emotional distress and manage issues as they move forward with their lives. I have had the privilege of working extensively with LGBTQIA+ and GSRD clients for over 7 years on a range of issues including anxiety, depression, stress, low self-confidence, shame, identity, sexuality, family issues, gender, relationship issues and trauma.Â
It's OK to ask for help, it is not weakness, it takes courage to reach out to someone for help. Your problems are not silly or unimportant and you are not wasting anyone's time - your distress is valid. We all struggle at times with all sorts of issues and you deserve to be heard and supported no matter what the issues are.Â
How can therapy help you?
Counselling and psychotherapy can facilitate changes in your life in many different ways including:
- Your relationship with yourself and others can improve
- You can develop greater understanding of yourself and what you need and want from life
- You can safely explore and process emotional distress, experiences and issues that affect your life
- You can develop personal insights that lead to improved well being
You may have something specific you wish to work on, or it may be more abstract. It's also OK if you do not have any goal in mind or don't know what you would like to achieve, we will focus on whatever feels helpful for you.Â
For in person clients, my comfortable therapy room is in a quiet location on the Isle of Wight. I also provide online and phone sessions for clients throughout the UK. Counselling and psychotherapy sessions are available Monday to Friday throughout the day and early evening. A free (optional) initial phone or online consultation is available to talk about what has brought you to therapy and answer any questions you may have.Â
- Attachment theory (Psychodynamic)
- Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT)
- Compassion-focused therapy
- Existential
- GSRD therapy
- Humanistic
- Integrative
- Person-Centred
- Solution Focused Brief Therapy
- Ace | Asexual
- BDSM | Kink
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Consensual non-monogamy
- Cross-dresser
- Gay
- Lesbian
- Neurodivergent
- Non-binary | Genderqueer
- Queer
- Questioning
- Trans
- One to one
- No adaptation
- Adults
- Seniors (60+)
- Young adults (16-24)
- Online
- In Person
- Free initial phone or online consultation
- Face to face, online or phone sessions - £50 per 50 minute session
In person sessions - payment can be made by debit or credit card or cash at the time of the session. If you wish to pay by bank transfer this will need to be paid in advance of the session.Â
Online and phone sessions - payment in advance by bank transfer
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