Tayler Remi | Neurodivergent Psychotherapist for LGBTQ+, ENM, Kink & Sex Workers

• Sex work is real work, and urgently needs full decriminalisation - not more ontrol.

• Trans rights are human rights. Trans men are men. Trans women are women. Non-binary people are part of the vast and beautiful spectrum of human experience.

• Refugees and migrants are welcome here. Justice for displaced people is a therapeutic and political imperative.

• Neurodivergence is a difference, not a deficit. Neurotypicality is not the default.

• Black lives matter. I stand for racial equity, abolitionist-informed care, and dismantling white supremacy within and beyond the therapy world.

• Therapy must be decolonised, not just diversified. Representation matters - but it’s not enough without structural change from within.

• Free Palestine. Liberation is collective. I stand against occupation and settler-colonial violence, and believe in centring Palestinian voices in justice and mental health work.

  I am an intersectional feminist, and explicitly reject TERF and SWERF ideologies. There is no feminism without trans liberation, sex worker rights, and the dismantling of racist, ableist, and colonial structures.

These values aren't just personal - they shape how I practise, make decisions in the room, stay accountable as a cis, white woman, and how I keep learning. I'm committed to ongoing CPD, regular supervision, and reflective peer spaces, particularly with queer, disabled, neurodivergent, and global majority therapists.

They also shape my approach to safeguarding and ethical care. I work from a harm reduction stance that centres autonomy, survival, and dignity - especially for those whose lives and choices are often criminalised or pathologised. I don’t conflate risk with danger; you can talk to me about things others might panic about - sex work, kink, substance use, suicidal thoughts - and I won’t jump to methods of control.

I only consider breaching confidentiality in rare cases of serious, immediate harm to you or others, and I’ll always aim to talk with you first. My commitment is to relationship, not surveillance. Therapy should be a place where you’re not just safe, but free to bring your full self.

My Professional Background

I’ve spent the past 15+ years working alongside people who’ve been stretched thin by survival - worn down by institutions, expectations, and roles that demanded too much and gave too little. My work has centred queer, neurodivergent, chronically ill, sex-working, and global majority communities - people who often carry a lot, but are rarely held with the depth, care, and understanding they deserve.

Before training as a therapist, I worked in sexual health, domestic abuse services, mental health charities, and online wellbeing spaces — all of which shape the way I hold space now: relational, trauma-aware, and rooted in justice.

During the pandemic, I co-created a digital outreach project in collaboration with sex worker-led organisations, offering peer-informed emotional support to those excluded from official services. I conducted needs assessments in partnership with sex workers, contributed to participatory research that helped secure Public Health England funding, and took part in nationwide strategy meetings with other support services. The project went on to inform similar initiatives across the UK.