Ren Oates
About the Therapist
I’m a integrative therapist. This means that I draw on a range of theories and techniques, including:
- Psychodynamic psychotherapy. Early relationships affect our thoughts and feelings in our current relationships. By understanding your unconscious patterns, you can make changes in everyday situations.
- Person centred therapy. Putting you in the driving seat for therapy, sessions are led by what you want to work on. I provide empathy, compassion and genuineness to support you.
I also incorporate aspects of relational therapy, somatic therapy, attachment theory and CBT.
We live in a world where intersectional oppressions exist, on the grounds of race, gender, class, sexuality, religion and many more. These can have a serious impact on our mental health. The therapy relationship is no exception. I am open to exploration of any aspects of identity and difference at any point during our work together.
- Lesbian
- Other
- Queer
Here's my website: ren oates therapy - Counselling in Sheffield and Online
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I offer an calm, open and non-judgemental space where you can feel heard and understood. As the trust in our relationship grows, I’ll support you to confront difficult thoughts, feelings and experiences. And I’ll be reliable and consistent as we work towards your goals.
I’m an integrative therapist. This means that I draw on a range of theories and techniques, including:
- Psychodynamic psychotherapy. Early relationships affect our thoughts and feelings in our current relationships. By understanding your unconscious patterns, you can make changes in everyday situations.
- Person centred therapy. Putting you in the driving seat for therapy, sessions are led by what you want to work on. I provide empathy, compassion and genuineness to support you.
I also incorporate aspects of relational therapy, somatic therapy, attachment theory and CBT.
I’ve worked with:
- Anxiety
- Depression
- Relationship challenges
- Identity
- Shame
- Sexuality (including coming out) and gender identity
- Difficult family relationships
- Loss, grief and bereavement
- OCD and phobias
- Chronic health conditions
- Support for families of people experiencing addiction
- Attachment theory (Psychodynamic)
- GSRD therapy
- Humanistic
- Neurodivergent
- Person-Centred
- Psychodynamic
- Relational
- Ace | Asexual
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Consensual non-monogamy
- Cross-dresser
- Gay
- Lesbian
- Non-binary | Genderqueer
- Queer
- Questioning
- Trans
- One to one
- No adaptation
- Adults
- Young adults (16-24)
- Online
- In Person
Counselling with me costs £60 for a 50 minute session.
I also offer 3 spaces at a reduced rate of £45 per session for people facing unemployment, low income or financial hardship. Please contact me about the availability of reduced-rate sessions.
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