Roy Graff - Therapy and Counselling
About the Therapist
A personal relationship and financial crisis in 2010 had forced me to completely re-evaluate my life and my values, start in-depth personal therapy and dig deep inside to find self–awareness and self-love. In the aftermath of the Covid-19 pandemic, the impact of these experiences led me to train in Psychosynthesis psychotherapy. Along the way, I was able to address and heal my parental abandonment trauma, learn valuable relationship communication skills, repair the relationship with my child, confront my socialised toxic masculinity and create a wonderfully supportive community around me. All this work has led me to feel the happiest and most fulfilled that I have ever been.
I have done this through a combination of psychotherapy, somatic practices such as breath work, TRE and body movement. Dance and nature are also fundamental aspects of my healing.
Having had 50+ years of lived experience, a great deal of self-experimentation and exploration, a range of different self-development and self-inquiry trainings and over a decade of experience with workshop and group facilitation, I feel that counselling and relationship therapy had become my new calling.
- Heterosexual
- Kink - BDSM
- Other
| Award | Awarding body | Year of award |
|---|---|---|
| Diploma in Psychosynthesis Counselling | Institute of Psychosynthesis | 2023 |
My practice is open to adults over 18, of all orientations, religions, races, sexualities and identities. I have particular lived experience and unique understanding of working with people who identify with the spectra of LGBTQIA+, kink, polyamory, multigamy (NM, ENM, CNM) and neurodiversity. I work integratively and intuitively, combining different modalities that fit my clients as well as working holistically with mind, body and feelings.
What you might want to talk to me about could include:
- Sexuality, gender and relational orientation questions
- Anxiety and Stress
- Obsessive thoughts and compulsions
- Childhood wounding or trauma
- Relationship challenges (romantic relationships, familial, friendships etc.)
- Addictions
- Self development, self confidence, self acceptance
- Boundary setting
- Acceptance and forgiveness
- Grief and loss
- Spiritual journey
- Conflict, rupture and repair
- Consultation
- Couple therapy
- Emotion-Focused Therapy
- Gestalt
- GSRD therapy
- Humanistic
- Integrative
- Internal Family Systems Therapy (IFS)
- Interpersonal
- Neurodivergent
- Other
- Person-Centred
- Psychosynthesis
- Relationship therapy
- Transpersonal
- Walk and talk therapy
- Ace | Asexual
- BDSM | Kink
- Bi- | Pansexual
- Consensual non-monogamy
- Gay
- Lesbian
- Neurodivergent
- Non-binary | Genderqueer
- Queer
- Questioning
- Trans
- One to one
- Two people
- Three or more people
- No adaptation
- Adults
- Seniors (60+)
- Young adults (16-24)
- Online
- In Person
Individual session of 50 minutes: £70-90
Discounts apply for students, those on low income and benefit recipients.
Please email me to discuss.
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