I currently have daytime and early evening availability. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist and my approach to therapy has been informed by both person-centred and psychodynamic approaches, alongside attention to what our bodies might hold and can tell us. This means that as well as recognising you as the expert on your own experiences, we may look back at some of your early and family history and how those relationships may be influencing what is happening for you in the present. 

If you are looking for couples relationship therapy, individual therapy, person-centred therapy or behavioural Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, I offer all this in my practice.  I offer a free 15 minute telephone consultation, so we can chat about what you want to bring to therapy, what you want from it, explore any questions you have and so you can get a sense whether I could be the right therapist for you, before booking a session. I offer face to face or online sessions on a weekly or fortnightly basis.  

Hello! I’m Iolanda. If you have you been feeling lost, uncertain or overwhelmed, I am here to help. I am an integrative, psychotherapeutic counsellor and I work with clients who are experiencing anxiety, low self-esteem and issues in their relationships. You may be looking for support with setting boundaries, forming and maintaining meaningful relationships or with improving the way you think and feel about yourself. Or perhaps you feel at a loss, like something isn’t working and you just don’t know why.  I have supported clients from diverse backgrounds and walks of life. My approach is warm and informal and

I work with either individuals (age 11+) or  couples.  I specialise in  relationships and couple therapy, sexual abuse, porn & sex addictions, self-harm, anxiety & depression, internalised homophobia, kinks, sexual compulsivity, and psychosexual work. I am also a school counsellor one day per week and work with adolescents over 11 years old. I have therapy rooms in both Oxfordshire and Leamington Spa.  

I began my professional life working with children 0-16 years and their families in North Kensington in various settings. This I believe is the groundwork for psychotherapy as child/human development is the base for many counselling theories. It was an invaluable introduction to working with people from all ages,backgrounds and life experiences. I currently have 25 years experience as a counsellor/psychotherapist and my practice is based in Notting Hill ,West 11. I have been a lecture in counselling and ran groups in many fields.

If you are reading this then you have already made a step towards prioritising yourself and your needs. If you are struggling with something that you would like to talk about to a qualified professional who is a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, then I welcome you to reach out.

I’m Jay, an integrative therapist who celebrates authenticity, creativity and individuality. I’m here to be alongside you with what ever it may be that you’re going through, helping you to embrace, empower and evolve. As a gay man with AuDHD, I am very aware of the difficulties and trying times that we face which  bring around anxiety, fear, isolation and low self-worth. 

I am a BACP registered integrative counsellor. I work with tenderness and curiosity around subjects of gender, sexuality, kink and polyamory. If you feel lost in all that the world expects of you, who you are, what is meaningful to you and what you need, I am here to offer you the space to rest, reflect and find the way forward.