You might be coming to therapy feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or unsure of how to make sense of what you’re experiencing—whether that’s anxiety, low mood, relationship difficulties, or questions around your identity, sexuality, or sense of self. I work as an integrative counsellor and trainee psychosexual therapist, supporting people with a range of concerns including low desire, difficulties with intimacy, sexual anxiety, performance worries, shame, and feeling disconnected from your body or sexuality. You may also be navigating questions around sexual identity, gender, or relationship styles. I offer a warm, non-judgemental and sex and kink-positive space where you can talk openly

Why me… what makes me different? I am a Psychosexual (Sex) and Relationship Therapist with additional training in Sex Addiction Counselling for compulsive sexual behaviour,  but I also work effectively with issues such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem and trauma, as my original training was in counselling, psychotherapy and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy.  I also have training in EMDR. I currently  see clients in private practice and and I also provide Psychosexual therapy for a range of sexual difficulties in the Psychosexual Therapy Service at a major London NHS Hospital Trust.  I am based in South-West London: Kensington SW5 and Putney

My name is Simon.     I’m Queer, cis-gendered, kink and sex positive, and ADHD. The main focus of my work, research, study, teaching, and future development, is in these areas; I adore working with them and find the work extremely rewarding. That’s not to say you can only come to me with challenges from these areas as we’re all human and experience all that life has to offer.