My name is Roy. I have lived adventurously and curiously and had a varied career in business development and marketing for over 20 years, living on different continents and collecting many life experiences. My first 20 years adulting were unconsciously monogamous by default. A personal and financial crisis in 2010, forced me to completely re-evaluate my life and values, go through therapy and dig deep inside for self–awareness and self-love. I was introduced to non-monogamy a decade ago and have identified as polyamorous ever since, experiencing a wide variety of relationship dynamics in the spectra of multigamy. Assimilating knowledge from

LGBTQIA+ Affirming Hypnotherapy – Oxfordshire & Online I’m Andrew (Andy) Selway, a gay Solution-Focused Hypnotherapist offering inclusive, LGBTQIA+ affirming therapy online and in Bicester, Oxfordshire. At HeadFirst Hypnotherapy, I provide a safe, non-judgemental space to rewire negative thoughts, release self-limiting beliefs, and build authentic confidence in life, relationships, and identity. I support adults with anxiety, stress, low mood, phobias, sleep issues, confidence, psychosexual concerns, porn reliance, compulsive sexual behaviour, destructive habits, and LGBTQIA+ relationship dynamics. My approach blends Solution-Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), hypnotherapy, CBT, NLP, and mindfulness, underpinned by neuroscience, to help you shift unhelpful patterns and strengthen resilience. Sessions

I’m an experienced Hypnotherapist (Dip Hyp, MSc) who works in an integrative way with GSRD, neurodivergent, and spiritual clients. My approach is gentle and supportive, helping you to look at the roots of your problem and create long lasting changes. I specialise in phobias, habits, anxiety, trauma, eating disorders, attachment and ancestral patterns.

Are you tired of feeling stuck and misunderstood, like you don’t fit, and exhausted by the effort of trying to? Do you feel like your difference – not being like the others – gets in the way of living well, and being authentically you? Amazing things can unfold when we truly feel seen, heard and accepted for who we are.

Do you freeze when all eyes are on you? Feel overwhelmed by that critical voice in your head? Does it feel like you’re wrestling with yourself in vulnerable moments?   As a cognitive behavioural hypnotherapist and member of the LGBTQ+ community, I understand the particular weight of feeling like you don’t belong—whether that’s in your family, your workplace, or even in your own skin.   I create a space where you can drop the mask and navigate the lost highways of old stories holding you back. We’ll reconnect you with your awesome authentic self. Most importantly, I’m here to help