You’ve been navigating life’s highs and lows with thoughtfulness and care. But maybe you’re feeling stuck, carrying more than your fair share, or struggling to stay calm in the chaos. Perhaps you’ve been navigating unique challenges as a member of the queer community, a third culture kid or a neurodivergent individual, looking for a space where your experiences are truly understood. You want to feel more confident, more at ease and in touch with your purpose, and even though you know what you have to do, it can be hard to take the first step on your own.
Hello, I’m Alec, I’m a bi queer trans man. I offer 1:1 counselling via Zoom or phone. I’ve experience working with a diverse range of clients and presenting issues. Offering a safe, confidential, warm and empathic space for you to talk, explore and work through whatever you need. My work is integrative, drawing on different approaches, which allows flexibility in how we work together. I work on short or long term basis. I have many years of work and personal experience with GSRD (Gender Sexuality, and Relationship Diversity) working extensively with Trans and Non-Binary people and those questioning their gender
Are you tired of feeling stuck and misunderstood, like you don’t fit, and exhausted by the effort of trying to? Do you feel like your difference – not being like the others – gets in the way of living well, and being authentically you? Amazing things can unfold when we truly feel seen, heard and accepted for who we are.
I offer a consistent, supportive, sensitively empowering relational space in which you can come to meet yourself with renewed curiosity, navigate an on-going difficulty, recover from traumatic wounds, (un)learn patterns of relating and expand your repertoire for connecting. Through straightforward, warm and expansive conversations you can increase your capacity to outline and strengthen the contours of your sense of self (clearer boundaries, needs, wants, edges, wounds and pleasures) and develop a readiness to articulate these confidently when needed while retaining your ability to be surprised, to remain open.
I have worked as a psychotherapist for the queer community for over 13 years. I am also also a clinical supervisor and trainer for MIND and the NHS. I am also a fully accredited BACP counsellor and senior psychotherapist (with having completed a course in advanced psychotherapy which is part of a PhD programme at CCPE.) I am also an individual and group supervisor having qualified at the Institute of Group Psychoanalysis (IGA) I am a qualified couples therapist. With couples I have done training in Gestalt therapy and EFT (Emotional Focusing Technique)
Welcome. If you’re looking for therapy that meets you where you are—whether you feel lost, overwhelmed, or like you need to change just to belong—you’re not alone. I offer a warm, inclusive space for LGBTQIA+ individuals, couples, polycules, and chosen families—including those who are kinky, poly, disabled, neurodivergent, or sex-working. I specialise in trauma, queer shame, child sexual abuse, and anxiety and depression, and offer EMDR. However you arrive, you are welcome here.
I’m a BACP-registered Therapist (MA), Coach, and Trauma-Informed Facilitator supporting couples and individuals across the UK and internationally. My approach blends evidence-based therapy with embodied intimacy & depth work- helping you shift patterns, reconnect sexually, heal attachment and relational wounds, and deepen connection. I work across the full spectrum of relational challenges, from communication and conflict to pleasure, intimacy, and conscious growth. Inclusive and sex-positive, I welcome all identities, orientations, and relationship structures, including clients exploring non-monogamy, kink, or simply seeking deeper self-awareness, connection, and relational expansion.
I’m a BACP-registered Therapist (MA), Coach, and Trauma-Informed Facilitator supporting couples and individuals across the UK and internationally. My approach blends evidence-based therapy with embodied intimacy & depth work- helping you shift patterns, reconnect sexually, heal attachment and relational wounds, and deepen connection. I work across the full spectrum of relational challenges, from communication and conflict to pleasure, intimacy, and conscious growth. Inclusive and sex-positive, I welcome all identities, orientations, and relationship structures, including clients exploring non-monogamy, kink, or simply seeking deeper self-awareness, connection, and relational expansion.
I’m a BABCP-accredited Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, Internal Family Systems and EMDR practitioner. I offer support for low mood, anxiety, low self-esteem, shame, and psychosexual difficulties. Whether you’re facing a specific challenge or want to explore things more openly, I work collaboratively with you to create a space where you feel understood, supported, and empowered to move forward.
Dear Friend, If you’re fed up with feeling like something in your life isn’t working… And you’d like to feel like yourself again… This might be the most important listing you’ll ever read. Let me ask you a question… Are your days filled by constant stress, endless pressures and never ending to-do lists? Do you spend a lot of time worrying about what other people think and how to make them happy? Are you running yourself ragged while trying to keep your head above water? And even as you try to fall asleep at night… Do you replay everything you
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